How are you all doing these days? Are you doing okay?
There have been some hard times recently. A lot of unknowns, a lot of heartache worldwide, and a lot of injustice and anger.
Responding to Hard Times
It’s hard to know what to do with all the emotions. It’s hard to process the information and discern what is true and what is right. For many it is difficult to know what to do next.
I don’t have all the answers. But I’m here to tell you you’re not alone processing it all.
It’s important to educate ourselves. Instead of learning from biased facebook memes, let’s be informed and equipped to engage well with these complicated issues.
There are a lot of posts out there providing direction on how to take action regarding the systemic racism in our country. I encourage you to think about how you can get involved.
Don’t Forget Wellness
Among the education and the action, it’s also important to be caring for ourselves.
We need to be patient with ourselves during these hard days. It’s okay if everything doesn’t get done and it’s okay if we’re not at our best. Let’s be kind to ourselves.
Let’s set limits on the news and social media.
Let’s practice self care.
And it’s important to have grace for others as well.
Other people are struggling right now, too, and we should remember that.
We need humility in our interactions with others.
And I’m especially speaking to privileged, white people like myself here- we don’t understand all of this fully and we shouldn’t pretend to. We need to listen.
We are in the midst of hard times.
But in these days we can come together to work towards better times.
Whether our response is donating to a cause, educating ourselves, speaking up, asking questions and having uncomfortable conversations, attending a protest, writing to politicians, or working on programs or legislation to bring about change- I hope we’re all taking actions these days to further social justice and what is right.
We’re in this together. We can practice social distancing to care for our neighbors and we can engage in social justice to care for our nation and our world.
I hope you’re all safe and finding supports and self care these days, whatever that looks like for you. Be well my friends!
First off I want to say terrific blog! I had a quick question in which I’d like to ask
if you do not mind. I was curious to know how you center yourself and clear
your thoughts before writing. I’ve had a hard time clearing my thoughts in getting my
ideas out. I do take pleasure in writing however it just seems
like the first 10 to 15 minutes are generally wasted just
trying to figure out how to begin. Any recommendations or hints?
Cheers!
Thanks so much, Del! And that’s a great question- sometimes it’s definitely hard to focus! I find a few techniques helpful myself though I suspect everyone is different- for instance I like to have a “to do” list so that I know what I’m working on next, but I know not everyone works that way. Maybe I’ll try to compile my thoughts on the matter and write a blog post on it soon 🙂